Why won't they stop?

[Lucresia]

I broke up with my ex in the beginning of January. Ever since then things have been hard and different. I'm still not completly over him and it has been 6 1/2 months. He has a new girlfriend now. She's really nice, but I just kinda wish he didn't have a girlfriend. All I can think about now some nights is him....
I have been having horrible dreams about him for a week or so now. Half have me and him in it, and the other half do not include me. In the ones that do include me, it always has to do with me wanting him back and him being the complete opposite of me. In the ones that do not include me, he dies or gets hurt in some way. It really is frightening cause I care about him a lot still. I don't know why I keep having these dreams though...
I want to talk to him when he comes online..see how he is. I guess the dreams make me worried that something may possibly be going bad with him...but I think it is just me. I just don't understand why I keep having these dreams.

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"Where'd you learn to be so complacent?"
-Powerman 5000 "Action"

[This message has been edited by Lucresia (edited 06-19-2003 08:25 AM).]

[Qball]

Time heals all wounds Lucresia. You still miss him, which makes you normal. But you also know that for right now, this is for the best.

Cheer up, better days are ahead.

[Dragon Phoenix]

Yes, these things take time. A lot of time. Sometimes an incredible lot of time, especially if you are in a situation where you continue to meet the one you love(d). But it will pass. And IMHO dreams are just that. Dreams. No indications of the future.

[Hitchhiker]

Some people say that dreams are an indication of a disturbed mental state -- the repressed worries/hopes/fears of the daytime, coming back to haunt you at night when you can't get rid of them.

Breakups may seem quick but they are a slow, painful process of letting go. It's probably hard for him too, even if he is happy with the new girl. It does get easier over time, though. *hug*

[The Ktulu]

More than a year ago I dated this chick (for the third time) and when we broke up, I was over it the next day. Weird, but true. But months later, even though I didn't like the girl at all, I still would think about her. So perhaps it's good that you're feeling what you are, that way it doesn't come back and bite you later on. But that's just thoughts from a lunatic.

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Mackay's Dog ate forty-one forty-secondths of me.

[Lucresia]

Well I im'd him today and he said he is doing alright . Then agan, I know I havn't been fine lately. Strange enough he wanted to rollerblade with someone and decided to ask me if I wanted to. We talked a lot. Not about going back out, he's happy how he is. Just about things though. It was nice. Sort of a relief too.

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"Where'd you learn to be so complacent?"
-Powerman 5000 "Action"